| The King's Speech | | Print | |
| Written by Jane Jackson |
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As a Career Coach I gain inspiration from a variety of sources and so often from my clients, my colleagues and their clients. I recently had the pleasure to view an amazing film, The King's Speech, that moved me as it documented how, through coaching, one's belief in oneself to overcome difficulties, no matter how challenging, becomes possible. The client this coach worked with was a monarch, as high profile as one can be, and yet in need of support, inspiration and guidance. This film is one of the most inspiring I have seen - thought provoking, compassionate and uplifting. It provided insight to the human side of the monarchy - the side hidden from the ‘common' public. The Duke of York, son of King George V and brother of King Edward VIII (who abdicated the throne for Mrs Wallace Simpson) was required to give public speeches as part of the duties in his role but had a fear of public speaking, which stemmed from experiences in his childhood. His fear was so great and he would stammer so badly he was almost impossible to understand. Lionel Logue, an Australian speech coach (and, as he turned out, a great life coach too) was engaged to work with the Duke of York on this challenge. Lionel was so successful as a coach that after the Duke of York became King George VI, Lionel was present at every speech the King gave and the two became lifelong friends. Colin Firth and Geoffrey Rush gave intense, absorbing and touching performances. This film is highly recommended. As a coach, there were many insights I gained during and after enjoying the film. Consider this exchange between King George VI and Lionel Logue: Logue: "What was your earliest memory?" The coachee does not always know the true reason they have requested coaching. The job of a coach is to find the real issue in a tactful and patient manner when the coachee is ready. Only then can progress be made. A coach may be hired for a specific reason however I have found in my years of coaching that there are always other issues that come to light during each coaching session. It is up to the coach to professionally and compassionately guide the coachee to discover what appropriate action, or actions, will be taken in order to move forward in each aspect of his or her life. As documented in The Coach U Personal and Corporate Coach Handbook (www.coachinc.com) as coach seeks to develop the coachee in every sphere of influence and every part of their being and doing: In developing the whole person all of the following areas are touched: Mind
Heart
Spirit
Business
Environment
There were times when the King was frustrated and rejected new concepts. Lionel reminded him that he would only coach the King if he wished to be coached by him. He was very aware that a coachee has to be ready for coaching in order to make progress. Previous speech coaches had used methods that did not work for the King. Lionel knew he had to communicate with the King in a manner that ensured understanding and acceptance and also delight in learning. As anyone watching the film will see, he succeeded masterfully at this. As a coach, I am always inspired and motivated by my clients/coaches. After watching this film I feel even more excited for the coming weeks and months and the clients I am working with and will have the pleasure to work with and learn from. When done right, both the coach and coachee come away from a coaching session invigorated, motivated and full of energy and positive momentum to take control of their careers and their lives. I have to say, being a coach is one of the most rewarding experiences in my life. "The King's Speech" reminded me how very lucky I am to be in this profession. Jane Jackson is Director of Style Success, coaching for success. Please contact Jane at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it or visit www.stylesuccess.biz
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