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Written by Natalia Mendez   

Sadly couples who are scratching the surface of their sexual potential mistakenly believe that they are hot between the sheets... As Woody Allen said, even bad sex is pretty good!

Here's are some facts that ticks me off:

  • Half of married couples have sex less than once a week... and many have much less than that.
  • More than half of women say they have faked orgasm with their lover.
  • 70% of women have NEVER had an orgasm during intercourse with their partner. (Even though in romantic movies and novels 100% of them ALWAYS do, I smell a misconception).
  • 1 in 7 women have never had an orgasm at all.

And WHY? Our culture makes it embarrassing and sometimes wrong to get help... which directly impacts the few resources available for woman to get help, and whatever information that is out there is often misguided, misinformed, unclean or sleazy.

Don't worry there is no conspiracy theory, no one planned for this to happen in this way... it's not yours or your spouse's fault... but what ticks me off even more is that in today's sexually saturated world, more couples get their idea of how to have good sex from pornography than anyplace else.

You can have Lasting Passion!!!

Here is the great news:

If you aren't having great sex, find it difficult to have powerful orgasms, or if you are in one of those relationships where you are being intimate less than once a week... then what I share with you can COMPLETELY change that and start having the kind of spectacular, connected, and satisfying sex that will have you clinging to each other all day long...

If you already have great sex and you're open to taking it to the next level, you are about to learn how to make it even more fun, even more passionate, AND... how to make it last a lifetime.
Couples that have lasting PASSION... not just a lasting and harmonious marriage, but true passion for each other across years and even decades... Love Making is the physical act of creating love. And that is done by engaging in a deeply emotional, sexual process in which both lovers create an environment of trust and acceptance so deep that they can both completely surrender their souls.

Sex offers a unique opportunity to be truly naked of more than just our clothing.

Research has shown that the single best way to intensify orgasms and the overall lovemaking experience is having prolonged foreplay. But the same old foreplay of touching here and there, kissing and licking this and that does get less enjoyable (and usually shorter) over time.

By turning foreplay into a game or (turning your bedroom into a funroom) you will take your lovemaking to levels of pleasure you possibly have never experienced.

Games for couples to play.

Now not all games will be perfect for you, but even if you found 2 or 3 games or ideas to add to your lovemaking, it will have a profound effect on your marriage.

Creative Dates (Tired of the same old "dinner and a movie" date?) Re-ignite your relationship.

Invite your partner to go for a walk. Get a back pack and pack the following items: A picnic blanket, a selection of fruit in small containers eg. strawberries, grapes, watermelon and kiwi fruit. Some cheese and crackers. Some sandwiches. A small tin of caviar. A half bottle of champagne and two plastic champagne glasses. If your partner asks what's in the backpack, just say a jacket and some lunch. When you find a romantic spot, ask if she would like to stop for a bite to eat. Open your pack and remove the items one by one to set up your picnic. The last item you remove should be the glasses and champagne.

When you and your partner are planning to go out for dinner, suggest that you have an 'Adventure Dinner'. Here's how it works...Set the timer on your stopwatch to count down twenty minutes. Next, ask your partner to choose a number between 5 and 10. Lets say she chooses 7.
Give your partner a coin and tell him that at every 7th intersection, he has to flip the coin. If it is heads you will turn left. If it is tails you will turn right. When your watch timer goes off you have to both keep a look out for the nearest place to eat. This is a fun way to get out and about and try new places to eat. Did I mention no underwear ;o)

Discover The Secret! (Find out the secrets some blissfully married couples already know and practice)

Share your food with your partner. When you go out for a meal, hold a forkful or if it safe to pick up with your fingers lift it up to spouse's mouth and say, "You've got to try this."
Sharing your food and even feeding each other is a great way to become closer as a couple.

Buy the domain name of your partner's name if it is available for example www.TonyJohnston.com.au Create a web page containing a romantic poem or a sexy escape date instructions. When your partner is surfing the web, casually ask whether she/he has ever checked to see whether her/his domain name is taken. Let her type it in to discover her page.

Use this idea if your partner is going to work and you are staying at home for some reason (Perhaps you are sick or are working from home). Say goodbye to her at the front door and then immediately send an email to her work address. The email should simply say, "Miss you already".
The email will be in her in-box when she does her morning email check.

 

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